Malditah Musings

why my wife keep calling me and tell me about our problems?

I and my wife is waiting for final hearing of our divorce ... He says now keep all my fault what happens to our marriage ... and had another woman on the net ... said he I let him ... and be free ... but he wants to stay friends with me ... now he call my family in the Philippines and argueing about my mother my account here ... why he needed to talk to my family that cause more problems with them ... Honestly, my family is not happy about what happens in our marriage, but bcoz the other woman my mother say just let him ... why he tells them when the one I want to get free in 1st place ... and its one that filled the divorce.why he is blaming me now? I do what you do .. im about to undermine it .. and he said I am very controlling person ... I pls.help

Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Do not answer his calls. Tell your family ali-up with him. His behavior of a person only concern is for himself. How do you or your family does not think her material. What he would he wants when he wants it. That's his life. Stop talking to him.